CAUFIELD CLAN

Conversation with God

2012-02-04T12:57:00.000-08:00

Me: God can I ask you a question?

God: Sure

Me: Promise you won't get mad?

God: I promise

Me: Why did you let so much stuff happen to me today?

God: What do you mean?

Me: Well, I woke up late,

God: Yes

Me: My car took forever to start,

God: Okay~

Me: at lunch they made my sandwich wrong & I had to wait,

God:Hmmmm...

Me: On the way home, my phone went DEAD, just as I picked up a call

God: All right~

Me: And to top it all off, when I got home ~I just wanted to soak my feet in my new foot massager & relax. BUT it wouldn't work!!! Nothing went right today! Why did you do that?

God: Let me see, the Death Angel was at your bed this morning and I had to send one of the other angels to battle him for your life. I let you sleep through that~

Me: OH (humbled)

God: I didn't let your car start because there was a drunk driver on your route that would have hit you if you were on the road.

Me: (ashamed).........

God: The first person who made your sandwich today was sick & I didn't want you to catch what they have, I knew you couldn't afford to miss work.

Me: Ok (embarrassed)

God: Your phone went dead because the person that was calling was going to give false witness about what you said on that call, I didn't even let you talk to them so you would be covered.

Me: I see God (softly)

God: Oh and that foot massager, it had a shortage that was going to throw out all of the power in your house tonight and I didn't think you wanted to be in the dark.

Me: I'm sorry God

God: Don't be sorry, just learn to trust me.....in all things , the good & the bad.

Me: I will trust you~

God: And don't doubt that my plan for your day is always better than your plan.

Me: I won't God. And let me just tell you God, thank you for everything today.

God: You're welcome child. It was just another day being your God and I love looking after my children.

I really LOVE the Beach

2012-01-30T10:36:00.000-08:00

Macen and I took another walk on Yorktown beach...It was very cold, but very beautiful. We walked the opposite way then yesterday. It was so fun. I cherish days like today. We talked about the tide. We searched for shells. We through rocks. We played. Macen told me his plans for the future. I can't lie, I am excited for him to go to school tomorrow, but I love day like this...just me and my son...

Everything I Need to Know, I Learned from the Beach

2012-01-29T07:52:00.000-08:00

1. Life changes with every tide.

2. Keep your eye on the horizon..there is always something beautiful to see

3. Life has days of rain, but it doesn't last. While it's raining it's replenishing Nature

4. Enjoy the Sun

5. You need to relax, put your a$$ in the sand, and your feet in the water. Life can stop for a moment

6. Life is like a day at the beach. You come to the beach full of excitement and looking for adventure. You leave a little overworked, a little worn out, and look forward to going home

7. There IS a God. You can't spend anytime at the beach without noticing His handy work.

8. Life goes on. The horizon last forever

9. Trouble is like the sand in an oyster. It may irritate, it may hurt, but in time you become a Pearle

10. A bad day at the beach is always better than a good day at work!

Weekly(ish) Update

2012-01-28T06:44:00.000-08:00

Sleepovers, Birthday Parties, Anniversary, Doctor's appointments...what a crazy few weeks!

Macen went to a birthday party last Saturday. Maria is a girl in his class who is also a neighbor. He calls her his girlfriend..but not THAT kind of girlfriend. She is a girl who is a friend. (He reminds me of this every day!) After the party, she and her sister came to our house to play. If I could have recorded them I would have won $10, 000 on America's Funniest Video's.

Grant celebrated 20 years in the Navy this week. I am so stinkin' proud of him! He's ready to retire, but I think he'll miss the daily Navy life.

Macen had his second sleep over. It's nice to see him making friends. I was so tired the next day that I swore the next time, Grant gets to be in charge

We had Macen's doctor's appointment to get his medication. If you haven't already checked out his blog you should. The doctor wants him to keep a journal of his experiences. Macen is pretty funny. He didn't want to go on any medication. When I asked him why he said "Because now I can't tell the teacher my Asperger's is acting up."

Grant is still underway. He's probably not going to make it home for his Birthday. (We just realized he has missed celebrating his birthday with us for most of out married life)

I'm doing well. I miss Grant, but Macen keeps me busy. This winter in Virgina has been snow free so I'm happy about that.

Well, that's about it. We love you all!! Drop me a line to let me know how you're doing

20 Years!

2012-01-26T20:01:00.000-08:00

20 years ago today my very amazing husband joined the Navy! I can not tell you how proud I am of him. He does incredible work. He is the greatest thing that ever happened to the Navy! It takes dedication to stay in the military for 20 years. He balances his career and his family with perfection (it probably helps that I am an amazing Navy wife...)

Grant, I love you so much! Thank you for being so wonderful!

Happy Birthday Will!!!

2012-01-23T12:29:00.000-08:00

Oh William..my favorite nephew from Rice family! How I love you! I know you hate hearing this, but it feels like yesterday when I was changing your diaper! How cute you were as a baby..and you've gotten so handsome. I am very proud of you! Have a very Happy Birthday!

My Sweet Princess

2012-01-22T06:32:00.000-08:00

Katie Mechelle Caufield

9/29/2004-1/22/2005

To You

The White Rose

All the earth's mothers were gathered together at God's garden of flowers; Those beautiful budding spirits, who would someday come to earth, were nurtures and tended in the garden. A loving Father, spoke to the Mothers; "See the works of my hands, someday you will be the mothers to these radiant spirits." The garden glowed with the mixture of all kinds and colors.

"Choose ye," he said.

Now, in the east corner of the garden pure white roses stood as sentinels. They were not as colorful as the rest, but glowed with a kind of purity which set them apart. One by one mothers stepped forward. "I want the blue eyed curly haired one, who will grow to maturity and be a mother in Zion" Yet another chose a brown eyed, brown haired boy, full of life and love who would someday be a prince in a grand country. The garden buzzed with excitement as the others chose their own special spirits, those whom they would soon welcome into warmth and love of an earthly home.

Once again the loving Father spoke, "But who will take the white roses, the ones in the east corner of the garden? These will return to me in purity and goodness, they will not stay long in your home, for I must bring them back to my garden for they belong with me, but they will gain bodies as was planned, you will miss them and long for them, but I will personally care for them."

"No, not I," many said, in unison. "I couldn't bear to give one back so soon." "Nor I," said others. "We will take those who will remain and grow to maturity and live long lives."

The loving Father looked out across the multitude of mothers with a longing in his eyes for someone to step forward.

Silence.

Then he said; "See the most pure and perfect of all the white ones? I Chose Him. He will go down and be a sacrifice for all mankind. He will be scorned, mocked, and crucified. He is mine own. Will not anyone choose like unto him?"

A few mothers stepped forward.

"Yes Lord, I will." Then another. "I as well," Yes we will Lord."

Soon all the pure white roses were taken, and they rejoiced in the choices of the mothers.

The Father spoke again, "Oh, blessed are you who chose the white roses, for your pain will be a heavy cross to bear, but our joy will be exceeding, beyond anything you can understand at this time."

The white ones embraced their mothers, and so full was their purity and love that it filled their souls with such endearment. Each mother knew they could endure the tasks.

And the greatest of all the white ones, gathered them as a hen gathers her chicks, and the outpouring of love surrounded each mother and child, consuming all the white ones as He prepared them for their task. And each mother who bore the weight of the White Rose, would feel the overwhelming love of God, as they all shouted, "Thy will be done."

Congratulations Rachael and Vincent!!!

2012-01-20T18:39:00.000-08:00

Our Family is adding one more to the loony bin! My BEAUTIFUL, TALENTED, BRILLIANT niece got engaged last night!!! I am so happy for her! I am excited to meet her love very soon!

(Just a little trivia for you all...both she AND her sister changed their last initial form a "W" to a "D")

Rachael, I can't say it enough, we here in the Caufield home love you very very much. You deserve all the happiness in the world!! Congratulations!

Happy Birthday Tracy!

2012-01-19T11:55:00.000-08:00

HaPpY BiRtHdAy to one of my FAVORITE sisters! I hope your day is awesome! You totally ROCK!!!

My sister Tracy is so great. I just love her to bits! She is kind, and loving. She is so smart. She gives freely. She is great with animals. She's a great mom and a fantastic sister. She makes me laugh alll the time!

So, sis..I hope this year brings you everything you wish for...I love you!

Happy Birthday Boner (aka Jeremy)

2012-01-15T16:17:00.000-08:00

HaPpY BiRtHdAy to my unofficial Brother-in-law! (Grant's brother from another mother) We love you very much!!!! I hope that in the near future I get to hear another story that starts with 'One night Jer and I were so drunk...."

Happy Happy Birthday Matt

2012-01-13T14:55:00.000-08:00

I have 3 nephews, and I love each and every one of them..But since it's Matt's birthday, I'll tell you why I love him...
He's freaking AWESOME! He is trying to find his way and he makes me laugh. He's smart, cute and very very funny. He swears like a sailor (which you all know I have a thing for sailors) I am not saying that swearing is good, but Matt does it like a poet...
Matt, Happy Happy Birthday! I love you very very much!!!

Happy Birthday Geran (aka Elder Elkins)

2012-01-11T12:27:00.000-08:00

We have three kinds of family.

Those we are born to,
those who are born to us,

and those we let into out hearts.

Today is my BFF's sons birthday..or as we like to call him "Macen's bruver from another Muver"

We are so proud of you Elder Geran! We love you and wish nothing but the best for you! We look forward to the day when we can all be together again!!! HaPpY HaPpY BiRtHdAy!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

2012-01-09T17:32:00.000-08:00

oh Rice family..so many birthdays! I love it!!
Happy Birthday to BEAUTIFUL Madison. You are amazing! I can't believe how much you've grown. We here in the Caufield home love you very very much!

Weekly Update

2012-01-09T14:45:00.000-08:00

Life is back to normal.. We enjoyed vacation but had to get back to the real world. Grant is back at the Cole.The new CO took command last week, and Grant likes him. He's getting ready to head out for a few weeks. He keeps talking about retiring, but that won't be for a bit. We spent the first part of last week trying to get our ID cards updated..The Navy computers kept going down so we got to see what the Coast Guard station in Yorktown looked like. Pretty cute base..I decide that living right on the water isn't the greatest in the winter because the breeze chilled me to the bone. We had a few issues with Grant's paperwork, but finally we got updated, so I can still call myself a Navy wife.

Macen is back to school and ready for another vacation. He says he wants school one week and vacation for two.. He is doing much better though. He is loving science. He's learning about energy and has been educating us on how we need to conserve more. He's not liking the cold weather and talks about missing St. George every time the wind blows here in Virginia. He is looking forward to spring so he can get back to the beach. (What can I say, he takes after his momma) It's hard for me to believe he's going to be 10! My baby isn't a baby anymore! We were looking through old pictures and found the one where we took him to the beach for the very first time...(I had to post it so you can see it too) It's amazing to me how time has flown by. He's so big now, but still needs me..

I'm still bored out of my mind. I have made some pretty good friends, but, like Macen, I don't do cold weather either, and miss my St. George. I'll get back there some day, even if it is just for a LONG vacation!

Well, that's about it. Have a good week. I'll update again soon! Love you all!

Our Children

2012-01-05T13:58:00.000-08:00

While we teach our children all about life,

our children teach us what life's all about.

And it begins

2012-01-02T11:07:00.000-08:00

What a vacation we've had! Grant has been home more this past week than he has been all year! It's been awesome! Macen has stayed up late, slept in, played hard, and made new friends. I have enjoyed every second! This year we are looking at Grant's retirement, starting a new job, buying our first home, and re-learning how to be a "normal" family. I am looking to go back to school, getting a job, and re-learning how to have my husband home more. Macen is starting a new medication, joining the Scouting program, doing better in school, and coming to terms with having aspergers. It's going to be exciting for sure. I look forward to sharing our adventures with you on my little blog(s) Let me know how you are all doing..leave me comment, email me, facebook me..heck, you can even call me! Have a great New Year all of you and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Peace!

Happy New Year

2011-12-31T16:03:00.000-08:00

It's time to say goodbye to 2011. It's been a fantastic year full of adventure, fun, excitement, mixed in with a little sadness. I have enjoyed every day. I have learned many lessons. I have made new friends, and grown fonder of old ones. I have loved having my husband home, and missed being with my parents. This year brought a new car, a new ship, and a new house. It has brought me closer to my baby brother. It has been a year of natural disasters. It has been a year of destruction for some. It has been a year for the record books for sure! I say goodbye to 2011..and hello to 2012. May each of you have a blessed New Year. May each of you have the peace and love that you deserve. Happy New Year to all!!!!

New Years Resolutions

2011-12-29T09:04:00.001-08:00

Yup, it's that time of the year..New Years Resolutions...

we'll see if I can do better this year.

Some will be easy, some will be hard..

but I will try to keep all of them.

1. I promise to cut back on my Diet Coke intake. I will try to quit all-together by the end of the year.

2. I promise to be less sarcastic with people I disagree with.

3. I promise to exercise at least 20 minutes every day

4. I promise to try one new recipe every week

5. I promise to keep my blogs updated

6. I promise to go to the beach more often

7. I promise to travel to see friends and family as often as possible

8. I promise to save 10% of our paychecks

9. I promise to NOT mock silly close minded people

10. I promise to speak my mind.

11. I promise to stand up for what I believe

12. I promise to try and go to church without complaining

13. I promise to live the way I know I should

14. I promise to stay off my cell phone while I am driving

15. I will watch less TV

16. I will be less judgemental

17. I WILL go back to school

18. I will try and cut back on my swearing (TRY, not promise)

19. I will help Macen do better in school

20. I will support my husband in his decisions

2011-12-27T16:30:00.000-08:00

The seven principles of Kwanzaa:

unity,

self determination,

collective work and responsibility,

cooperative economics,

purpose,

creativity,

and faith.

Saying Goodbye to 2011

2011-12-27T15:27:00.000-08:00

I can't believe it's already the last week of 2011. It's so crazy. It went by so fast!
So much changed, yet so much stayed the same.
I decided to start my list of the things that stood out this past year..they are in random order...

25. Grant finally came home after 2 years in Japan.
24. The Earthquake and Tsunami in Japan amazed me, shocked me, saddened me..and made me so grateful for unanswered prayers.
23. The tornado's in Joplin..just amazed me at the power of Nature.
22. Traveling across country in our new car with the boy AND three dogs...
21. Seeing "Graceland"
20. The Heat in the southern part of the USA and having to stop in it..YUCK
19. Charlie Sheen..."WINNING"
18. The end of Oprah..
17. The end of Harry Potter
16. Having to get use to Grant being home..totally awesome!
15. Geran getting his mission call to Japan
14. The earthquake in Virginia
13. The Hurricane on the east coast
12. The Nor'easter in Connecticut
11. The ups and downs of my nieces and nephews
10. Rebecca and Justin announcing their pregnancy
9. All the marriages...
8. The fight over Gay Marriage
7. The end of the war in Iraq
6. My mom getting a new cell phone and butt dialing me.
5. Being in the same town as my baby brother after almost 7 years
4. Casey Anthony being acquitted..(she is soooo totally guilty)
3. Charlie Sheen...not winning
2. Ashton..'nuff said
and the #1 highlight of 2011? Being together with my little family and loving every minute of it!

And to all a Good Night

2011-12-24T14:26:00.000-08:00

And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered.
And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn. And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.
And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid.
And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.
For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior which is Christ the Lord.
And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.
And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying,
Glory to God in the highest, and on earth Peace, good will toward men.

Merry Christmas to all of my Friends and Family..and to anyone who reads this blog. May you have the Spirit Of Christmas to be with you.

The Three Wise Men

2011-12-23T16:53:00.000-08:00

I love the story of the Three Wise men. I love the fact that they waited year after year for the birth of Jesus. I love that they followed a single star, night after night until they had finished their quest.

I think it's important to note that they were not there in the stable on that first night. It took awhile to find this boy named Jesus. They never lost faith, even though there had to have been times that it would have been easier to turn around and go home..back to their riches and worldly goods...but they didn't.

I think we can learn from these men. We may not have been there in the stable, but we can still find him..if we search, if we have faith.

To quote one of my favorite Forgotten Carols:

Somewhere beneath the glitter

That comes this time of winter

In many souls there is a cry

They may not clearly say it

But in their hearts they pray it

And you can see it in their eyes

'I cannot find my way

I cannot find my way

I cannot find my way at all

There are so many voices

So many different choices,

I cannot find my way at all.'

There were three kings

Who followed the star

Of Bethlehem

They came from afar

To praise and honor Him

His light

which beckoned them to see

The Lord of Man

It calls to you,

It calls to me

We're not alone,

We have a star

And it shines today

The love that He gave

Teaches how

And shows the way

That light,it's clear to see

If we have faith and believe

Three kings found the Lord

And so can we...

This season, and every day throughout the year, my hope is that each of us can find our way..to what ever it is that makes you happy.

The Little Drummer Boy Got It Right

2011-12-22T13:21:00.000-08:00

While shopping today for Christmas dinner I was amazed at how much "stuff" is out there for gifts. Things advertised "Under $10, Under $20" Things for the Tech Geek..Things for the Fashonista..Things for everyone on your list...It actually made me a little sad. Christmas isn't about the gifts, at least those kind of gifts. This year I really don't want anything, at least not anything from a store. iPad 2? Awesome..don't want it. A new smartphone? My old dumb phone is fine. New clothes? I like my old ones just fine...What I want doesn't come from a store. What I want is simple. I want my family to be safe. I want my friends to be happy. Having Grant home with me on Christmas day is perfect. Having my amazing son happy? Couldn't ask for more.

Driving home from the dreaded store, I heard one of my most favorite Christmas carols of all time (and if you turn on your speaker, the song should be playing in the background) "The Little Drummer Boy" makes me smile every time I hear it. Today, it meant even more. Today, it showed me what a real gift is.

This little boy has nothing of earthly value to give the new born King, so he gives his talent. His God given talent. What better gift is there?

Macen doing well in school, being kind, using his manners is a fantastic gift. When Grant makes dinner, of takes out the trash without being asked..that is an AMAZING gift. When a person gives of themselves, there is nothing better. Maybe it's because I'm old, or maybe it's because I truly have everything I need, I don't know..but whatever the reason, I don't need anything under the tree.All I need is sitting around the tree with me! So, while you open your gifts this year, remember, the greatest gift isn't wrapped in paper....

Christmas Town at Busch Gardens

2011-12-21T17:57:00.000-08:00

Last week we braved the cold to go to Christmas Town up at Busch Gardens. It was AWESOME! Lights everywhere, fun rides, good food and great company....Macen kicked serious butt on the rides..once he got over the fear of the dreaded swinging boat ride! We had a fantastic time! We are soooo ready for Christmas now!

Are you?

2011-12-18T08:43:00.000-08:00

Are you part of the

"INN"

crowd

or one of the

"STABLE"

few?"

'Twas the Night Before Deployment

2011-12-13T13:46:00.000-08:00

okay, let me preface this posting by saying that I wrote this poem. It's not very good, but I never said I was a poet. I have been blessed these few months of having my husband home with me. I had missed him for 2 very long years, and I am not looking forward to another deployment. That being said..I am a Navy Wife and will face the deployment head on! Two very dear friends of mine are with out their cute husbands for a little while. Cindy's amazing husband is doing his Seabee thing in a far away country, and every day I am amazed at her strength as she keeps her family together. My other dear friend Felicia just sent her husband off for a change of Port adventure..I can't imagine not having my husband home for Christmas, but she's so strong. She always has a smile, and even if she only gets to talk to him for a minute, she says it's worth it.

My amazing friend Pam has been a sailors wife for 30 years, and has weathered more deployments than I can imagine, and she did it with such class, such dignity, that she became my role model. She should be the role model for every Navy wife. So, to these women, I dedicate this poem to you..and to all other Military wives..Thank you for your service!

Twas the night before deployment

and all through the house

not a person was sleeping,

especially his spouse.

His bags were all packed

and sat by the door

His day almost over

He wanted one more

To tell his sweet wife

how much he would miss

the time they had together

and to give her a kiss

His children he hugged

held them tight to his chest

and telling each one

that they were the best.

He spoke of his love

to everyone in the home

including the dog

who was chewing a bone.

Then off to bed for one last night

of sound sleeping, and cuddling

and feeling so right.

He turned to his wife

said "I love you"once more

and giving a nod

he started to snore.

His wife stayed awake

keeping her gaze on this man

who was risking his life

she was his biggest fan.

She loved this man

she loved him so much

this man with great honor

she'd miss his sweet touch.

She got out of bed,

knelt down on the floor

and bowing her head

she began to implore

"Dear God" she cried

"Protect my sweet Sailor

bring him home safe and sound

six months from now

and not a day later.

Let him Know that I love him

that he's always on my mind

and no greater person

will I ever find.

Dear God, she continued

please be with me

to keep me strong

like he wants me to be.

Help me be brave

when things get tough.

help me be wise

when I think I've had enough.

I promise to be faithful,

loving and kind

I promise to write

everyday, online.

And God she asked

protect the others

the moms, the dads

the sisters, the brothers

Let them be safe,

give them belief.

let time pass quickly.

give them relief.

She said "Amen"

wiped away a tear

looked at her man

and lost all her fear

"Don't worry" she whispered

"all will be well

I love you more than life.

Much more than I can tell.

I'll be here waiting

like all the times before

I'll be here waiting

'til I don't have to anymore."

Silent Night

2011-12-12T14:06:00.000-08:00

Last night the internet went off. The Cable was acting funny . I got tired of dealing with it all so I turned everything off, and then, something happened...my house was silent. The boy was fast asleep. The dogs were all in their beds dreaming of dog bones I'm sure. Grant was underway. The neighbors weren't outside smoking and laughing (or fighting for that matter) It was silent. It was peaceful. The Christmas lights outside were twinkly. My Christmas tree was beautiful. It was a Silent night. I think I finally understand the Christmas carol. 42 years, and I finally got it.

I thought about the "original" silent night. There were no electronic devices. There were no planes flying over head. There were no Marines setting off explosives. It was Silent. The only noise was that of nature, of humanity. Cattle mooing, sheep sheeping, chickens clucking, and a baby crying. That baby is what made the night become holy. That baby came into the world the normal way. No one twittered, or Facebooked, or even blogged. It happened, and those who were waiting for a sign got one..not by an iPhone, but by Angels..and a single star.
We get so caught up in the sounds of this season we forget the reason for the season. It wasn't a huge celebration on that first night, it was quiet, it was calm.. I keep thinking of that saying "Be still, and know that I am" It started on that first Silent, Holy night. The world was calm. The world was still. We need to find that calmness in our lives, not just during this season, but every day. We may not get to be Silent, but we can keep the Holy in our hearts.
So, today, I wish all of you a Silent, Holy night. Let the Reason for the Season be with you.

How The Grinch Saved Christmas!

2011-12-10T11:34:00.001-08:00

"He puzzled and puzzled till his puzzler was sore. Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn't before. Maybe Christmas, he thought... doesn't come from a store. Maybe Christmas, perhaps... means a little bit more!"

Every year since I can remember, I have watched the original "How the Grinch Stole Christmas"

I love it. I know it by heart. I think Dr. Seuss showed the true meaning of Christmas with this story. My Christmas wouldn't be the same if I didn't watch this show.

When I was a little girl I remember my moms friend "Ma Dip" (yes, that's what we called her) would come over and tell us this story..she didn't read it..she told it to us from memory. It was so great. I remember getting lost in the story as she told it. I loved those times. She did it every year..even as I got older and thought I was too "Cool" for Christmas, I would always get excited when Ma Dip did her thing.

I realized, much later in life, that Ma Dip's telling of the Grinch kept my Christmas spirit alive. I figured if an "old lady" could have the Christmas spirit, then so could I. Her telling that story every year, kept the "Grinchyness" out of my heart.

When I see what greed can do to Christmas, and I start feeling a little "Grinchy" I read the story to my son, or we watch it on TV, and I remember that Christmas comes without ribbons. It comes without tags. It comes without packages, boxes, or bags! Christmas comes no matter what. It comes because the Spirit of Christmas will never really die. It might get lost on occasion, but we find it. We feel it, even when we try not to. Christmas means more. The Grinch discovered it at the last possible moment..I know that all of us can...and gather together to carve the roast beast!

A Day That Will Live in Infamy!

2011-12-07T16:26:00.001-08:00

Everybody knows about Pearl Harbor. The thing that really fascinated me is that through this tragedy there was this amazing American heroism. -Michael Bay

The Lovers, the Dreamers, and Me: Why I love the Muppets

2011-12-05T19:46:00.000-08:00

Yesterday, Grant, Macen and I went to see the new Muppets Movie. I have loved the Muppets since I was a little girl watching Sesame Street, and I wanted Macen to see them on the big screen. It was AWESOME! Watching Macen, as he hoped that Kermit would get the group together, smiling at the newest Muppet, Walter, laughing at Fozzy, giggling at Swedish Chef, cracking up at Beeker, and cheering at the happy ending, was the best part of my day.

I think the Muppets are celebrity icons. I think they are amazing role models.

Kermit is the original in my eyes..he was a natural born leader. He put up with a whole lotta crazy, and he never gave up..and he still doesn't..He rocks.. He loves Miss Piggy even with all her faults.. (Grant is my Kermie!)

Miss Piggy (who, by the way, is my FAVORITE) taught me that it was okay to speak my mind, to go after what I want..I love her. She likes to be the center of attention (hmm..sound familiar?) She can stand on her own, but she'd rather stand with the people (or Frog as the case may be) that she loves. I think girls should look to her for a role model..instead of a crazy teenager who changes just to be with a sparkly Vampire!

Animal..what an insane Muppet..and he is fantastic..He loves what he does and he does it with passion!

Scooter..the original back bone! He keeps things together..(And Nan, if you're reading this..he reminds me of you!)

The newest Muppet, Walter, was so great in the movie. He had to find his place by being himself. What a great lesson for everyone!

All the Muppets are amazing characters. Each are individuals that together make an amazing family. Each have personalities that touch people, young and old.

I love the Muppets. They are the true celebrities of our day!

So, Cheers to Jim Henson and the furry creatures he created..and God bless the Muppets..

What a beautiful morning!

2011-12-04T05:45:00.001-08:00

To quote my great late Grandma Johnson."What a GRAND and GLORIOUS day!" Winter chill is upon us here in Yorktown, but I don't mind so much on mornings like this. I love Sundays. My husband is home after a very long non stop work week, and I get the whole day with him. Macen is happy and warm, and just so funny. My dogs aren't barking..in fact they are all still sleeping. I love it! I got up this morning to let the dogs out and looked at the most beautiful sky. The leaves have mostly fallen to the ground, but a few are hanging on just to give the skyline a bit of color. I came in and looked at my beautiful Christmas tree and remembered how awesome Christmas was in the Wadley home, and how awesome it has been in the Caufield home. Life is good. So today, take time to notice your blessing, the beauty of life, the world..the awesomeness of being alive, and the magic of the Holiday season. God Bless all of you!

Why I love Rudolph

2011-12-03T07:18:00.000-08:00

Every year at Christmas time my son and I will sit and watch many many many Holiday shows. We love 'em all. "A Christmas Story" "The Year Without A Santa Claus" "It's A Wonderful Life" "Frosty the Snowman" "The Grinch" But our most favorite is "Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer"

Macen has watched it so many times he knows it by heart. We quote it, we sing it's songs..We love it.

When I was little I loved it for different reasons..now that I am older, I see how important the show is. It talks about being different, it talks about bullying, it talks about striking out on your own to find your way home. It talks about how things are not always what they seem, and it talks about the importance of being yourself.

I believe that Rudolph is a lesson for everyone..and a fun one at that!

A few years ago I came across a story about the author of Rudolph. I don't know if it's totally true, but I'd like to think so. I have decided to share it with you..it made me love Rudolph even more..I hope it does the same to you!

Rudolph - That Amazing Reindeer
Author Unknown

On a December night in Chicago several years ago, a little girl climbed onto her father's lap and asked a question. It was a simple question, asked in children's curiosity, yet it had a heartrending effect on Robert May."Daddy," four-year-old Barbara asked, "Why isn't my Mommy just like everybody else's mommy?"Bob May stole a glance across his shabby two room apartment. On a couch lay his young wife, Evelyn, racked with cancer. For two years she had been bedridden; for two years, all Bob's income and smaller savings had gone to pay for treatments and medicines.The terrible ordeal already had shattered two adult lives. Now Bob suddenly realized the happiness of his growing daughter was also in jeopardy. As he ran his fingers through Barbara's hair, he prayed for some satisfactory answer to her question.Bob May knew only too well what it meant to be "different." As a child he had been weak and delicate. With the innocent cruelty of children, his playmates had continually goaded the stunted, skinny lad to tears. Later at Dartmouth, from which he was graduated in 1926, Bob May was so small that he was always being mistaken for someones little brother.Nor was his adult life much happier. Unlike many of his classmates who floated from college into plush jobs, Bob became a lowly copy writer for Montgomery Ward, the big Chicago mail order house. Now at 33 Bob was deep in debt, depressed and sad.Although Bob did not know it at the time, the answer he gave the tousled haired child on his lap was to bring him to fame and fortune. It was also to bring joy to countless thousands of children like his own Barbara. On that December night in the shabby Chicago apartment, Bob cradled his little girl's head against his shoulder and began to tell a story..."Once upon a time there was a reindeer named Rudolph, the only reindeer in the world that had a big red nose. Naturally people called him Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer." As Bob went on to tell about Rudolph, he tried desperately to communicate to Barbara the knowledge that, even though some creatures of God are strange and different, they often enjoy the miraculous power to make others happy.Rudolph, Bob explained, was terribly embarrassed by his unique nose. Other reindeer laughed at him; his mother and father and sister were mortified too. Even Rudolph wallowed in self pity."Well," continued Bob, "one Christmas Eve, Santa Claus got his team of husky reindeer - Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, and Vixen ready for their yearly trip around the world. The entire reindeer community assembled to cheer these great heroes on their way. But a terrible fog engulfed the earth that evening, and Santa knew that the mist was so thick he wouldn't be able to find any chimneys.Suddenly Rudolph appeared, his red nose glowing brighter than ever. Santa sensed at once that here was the answer to his perplexing problem. He led Rudolph to the front of the sleigh, fastened the harness and climbed in. They were off! Rudolph guided Santa safely to every chimney that night. Rain and fog, snow and sleet; nothing bothered Rudolph, for his bright nose penetrated the mist like a beacon.And so it was that Rudolph became the most famous and beloved of all the reindeer. The huge red nose he once hid in shame was now the envy of every buck and doe in the reindeer world. Santa Claus told everyone that Rudolph had saved the day, and from that Christmas, Rudolph has been living serenely and happy."Little Barbara laughed with glee when her father finished. Every night she begged him to repeat the tale until finally Bob could rattle it off in his sleep. Then, at Christmas time he decided to make the story into a poem like "The Night Before Christmas" and prepare it in bookish form, illustrated with pictures for Barbara's personal gift. Night after night, Bob worked on the verses after Barbara had gone to bed. For he was determined his daughter should have a worthwhile gift, even though he could not afford to buy one...Then as Bob was about to put the finishing touches on Rudolph, tragedy struck. Evelyn May died. Bob, his hopes crushed, turned to Barbara as chief comfort. Yet, despite his grief, he sat at his desk in the quiet, now lonely apartment, and worked on "Rudolph" with tears in his eyes.Shortly after Barbara had cried with joy over his handmade gift on Christmas morning, Bob was asked to an employee's holiday party at Montgomery Wards. He didn't want to go, but his office associates insisted. When Bob finally agreed, he took with him the poem and read it to the crowd. First the noisy throng listened in laughter and gaiety. Then they became silent, and at the end, broke into spontaneous applause. That was in 1938.By Christmas of 1947, some 6,000,000 copies of the booklet had been given away or sold, making Rudolph one of the most widely distributed books in the world. The demand for Rudolph sponsored products increased so much in variety and number that educators and historians predicted Rudolph would come to occupy a permanent place in the Christmas legend. Through the years of unhappiness, the tragedy of his wife's death and his ultimate success with Rudolph, Bob May has captured a sense of serenity. And as each Christmas rolls around he recalls with thankfulness the night when his daughter Barbara's questions inspired him to write the story.

So, as the season progresses, and Rudolph is on TV

sit down with your family and watch it...and remember, you are perfect, just the way you are!

Baby Dudley! We are soooo excited to meet you!

2011-12-02T12:16:00.000-08:00

Oh Becca! I am so excited for you! It seems like yesterday you were that cute little two year old flirting with the Simsbury High Football team! And now, you are going to be a mommy! Not just any mom..but an awesomely great one! I am so proud of you and the choices you have made..especially the decision to make me a Great Aunt..( I know I am already Great, but now it's an official title)

Justin..my man..I am so excited for you too. What a dad you will be.

Grandpa Bill and Grandma Gina..congratulations..you will ROCK as Grandparents!

Rachael, Matthew..Get ready to have the most fun. Being an Aunt to you all has been one of the greatest blessings in my life.

When I told Macen the news he cheered, smiled and said..when "she" (He thinks it will be a girl) gets here, I better be there to show her the way... Then in his prayer asked Heavenly Father to be with you so that the baby will be "coolio" I don't know if that's good or bad, but we're all so excited to have a new member in this crazy family of ours!

We have much to do, many bets to take..so get ready for the greatest and hardest ride of your life!

Becca, I love you so much..Good Luck, God Speed..and welcome to the mommy club!

Alphie The Christmas tree

2011-12-01T17:02:00.000-08:00

Did you ever hear the story of the christmas tree

Who just didn't want to change the show?

He liked living in the woods and playing with squirrels

He liked icycles and snow

He liked wolves and eagles and grizzly bears

And critters and creatures that crawled

Why bugs were some of his very best friends

Spiders and ants and all

Now that's not to say that he ever looked down

On a vision of twinkled lights

Or on mirrored bubbles and peppermint canes

And a thousand other delights

And he often had dreams of tiny reindeer

And a jolly old man in a sleigh

Full of toys and presents and wonderful things

And a story of christmas day

Oh, alfie believed in christmas alright

He was full of christmas cheer

All of each and every day

And all throughout the year

To him it was more than a special time

Much more than a special day

It was more than a special story,

It was a special kind of way

You see some folks have never heard a jingle bell ring

And they've never heard of Santa Claus

They've never heard the story of the son of God

That made Alfie pause

Did that mean that they'd never know of peace on earth

Or the brotherhood of man

Or know how to love, or know how to give

If they can't no one can

You see, life is a very special kind of thing

Not just for a chosen few

But for each and every living, breathing thing

Not just me and you

So in your christmas prayers this yearAlfie

asked me if I'd ask you

Say a prayer for the wind and the water and the wood

And those who live there too

We believe in Santa Claus

2011-12-01T06:52:00.000-08:00

I believe in Santa. No matter how old I get I still believe. Not so much in the tiny reindeer, the jolly old man..but I believe in the SPIRIT of Santa Claus. I believe in the love that he has. I believe in the spirit of giving that is Santa Claus. I believe that Santa Claus bring about the magical part of this season. I believe that Santa gives children of all ages a reason to hope. I believe in Santa Claus. Merry Christmas to all...and to all a good night.

I BELIEVE IN SANTA CLAUS

from The Year Without a Santa Claus
Music: Maury Laws Lyrics: Jules Bass

I believe in Santa Claus

Like I believe in love

I believe in Santa Claus

And everything he does

There's no question in my mind

That he does exist

Just like love I know he's there

Waiting to be missed

I believe in Santa Claus

But there was a time

I thought I had grown to old

For such a childish rhyme

He became a dream to me

Till one Christmas night

Someone stood beside my bed

With a beard of white

"So you're too old for Santa Claus"?

He said with a smile

Then you're too old for all the things

That make a life worth while

For what is happiness but dreams

and do they all come true

Look at me and tell me, son

What is real to you?

Just believe in Santa Claus

Like you believe in love

Just believe in Santa Claus

And everything he does

Wipe that question from your mind

Yes, he does exist!

Just like love you knows he's there

Waiting to be missed

Just like love I know he's there

Waiting to be be missed

Keeping Christ in Christmas

2011-11-30T10:10:00.000-08:00

Those of you who follow me on Facebook might remember me talking about this before, but today I recieved 3 more emails reminding me to "Keep Christ in Christmas" so I thought I would talk about it again.

I understand what people are saying..honestly. I agree..if you believe in Christ, He should be the center of this holiday. He should be celebrated. Not just at Christmas..but each and every day, and all throughout the year. Christians all over the world should unite and not just give lip service to Christ, but worship him..so "that those who don't know Christ, will come to know him, just by knowing you." That doesn't mean telling people what they should do..it means SHOWING them what it means to be Christ-like.
The month of December has other celebrations in it..each with an awesome story..and each should be celebrated. To say to someone.."You should say Merry CHRISTmas and not Happy Holidays" is telling them that no other December holiday should be observed. We live in a world where different beliefs must co-exist. Stores must serve all people, so when they say "Happy Holidays" they are not being disrespectful..they are honoring ALL the celebrations, ALL the beliefs, ALL the religions. To be offended when someone says "Happy Holidays" to you is just plain silly. They aren't denying Christ..They are wishing a Happy Time celebrating what YOU believe.
I believe in Christ. I believe in his teachings. I try to treat all people the way He would want me too. I have kept "Christ in Christmas" I have tried to teach my son the importance of keeping "Christ in Christmas." I do not get offended when I see "Happy Holidays" written on the windows of stores. It does not diminsh my faith, nor does it make me angry that people don't celebrate Christ. This season is more than the birth of Jesus. It is a time for the "Good will of Men to Shine forth." It is the season of pure and simple LOVE. It is the season where we put aside our petty differences, and love one another. Give the gift of love..of understanding.
So, I promise, I will keep "Christ in Christmas" but I may,on occasion, say Happy Holidays..not to offend, but to make sure that those around me know that I wish them, no matter their beliefs, a very Happy Time celebrating this magical season...

Congratulations Elder Elkins

2011-11-29T13:19:00.001-08:00

My very best friend's very cute son, Geran got his mission call. Again, normally I am a very sarcastic girl, but I have nothing to be sarcastic about today. I am soooo proud of this young man. He is such a good example! Grant and I love him like a son, and Macen considers him a "brother from another mother"

He has been called to the Sendai, Japan mission!! (He has a soft spot for Japan, so I am glad he gets to go)

It will be hard work, and his mom will miss him something fierce, but I know he will be amazing!

So, Elder Richard Geran Elkins....Congratulations! We love you!

"Z" I am Thankful for Zoolander

2011-11-26T13:04:00.001-08:00

I know it's crazy, but I love this movie. It makes me laugh! I watch it when I am in a bad mood! My niece Courtney got me to watch it, and I have never laughted so hard. It's dumb AND smart at the same time! I am grateful to all the movies that make me laugh! Laughing is my favorite thing to do!

"I'm pretty sure there's a lot more to life than being really, really, ridiculously good looking. And I plan on finding out what that is."

" So join now, 'cause at the Derek Zoolander Center For Kids Who Can't Read Good And Wanna Learn To Do Other Stuff Good Too, we teach you that there's more to life than just being really, really, really good looking. Right kids? "

"Orange Mocha Frappuccino! "

"Y" I am Thankful for the word "Yes"

2011-11-25T14:38:00.000-08:00

I love to use the word "Yes" I like it more than the words "No," "Maybe," or "We'll see."

Can I do that extra 10 situps? YES!

Can I be extra kind today? YES!

Do I have the strength to stand up for my beliefs? YES!

Do I have the courage to stand alone? YES

Can I be anything I want to be? YES

Can I be understanding? YES

Can I show love to those who can't? YES

I love the word YES. It gives me hope on days that I am hopeless!

'X" I am thankful for quotes by Malcolm X

2011-11-25T14:22:00.000-08:00

Again, I love to study American History, and true American Heroes... One of the people I admire is Malcolm X. He was an astonishing character in our history. His quotes talk to everyone.. I am Thankful for people like Malcolm X..they bring about change...and change is good!

"A man who stands for nothing will fall for anything."

"Education is the passport to the future, for tomorrow belongs to those who prepare for it today."

"I'm for truth, no matter who tells it. I'm for justice, no matter who it's for or against."

"Power in defense of freedom is greater than power in behalf of tyranny and oppression."

"Stumbling is not falling."

"W" Wazi!!!

2011-11-23T06:58:00.001-08:00

Oh Waziyatah..how I miss you. I loved my time at Wazi. Not only because of the fun times, but because of the amazing people I became friends with! Dru, Al, Misty, Aimee, Bobby, Beth (I was actually friends with her before, but our times at Wazi rocked) Dick, Dave, Stu, and so many others! I am so grateful for them! They changed my life in so many ways! This year folks..reunion time! And since I haven't said today..I love you all so very much!

"V" part 2...I am thankful for Veterans

2011-11-23T06:43:00.000-08:00

I can not do a list without Veterans. I am so very proud of all those who served and are serving now. Thank you! We owe our veterans not only respect, but our lives. We need to live our lives so that no Veteran died in vain. Be grateful for your freedoms. Celebrate them. Cherish them! I have said this before, but I need to say it again. I am honored to be married to a veteran, to be related to veterans, and friends with amazing veterans. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart!

"V" The VERY first Thanksgiving!

2011-11-22T09:44:00.000-08:00

As I have said before, I love History, and I love Thanksgiving...so today, I am combining them. I love the History of America but sadly, much is forgotten every year. The First Thanksgiving was an amazing feat. The story of the Pilgrims is one full of heartache, loss, friendship, food, tradition..it's one that should be remembered each year. So, after Macen and I talked about Thanksgiving, I realized how Thankful I am for the Pilgrims and for the Native Americans.

"U" Today I am Thankful for Utah!

2011-11-21T15:20:00.000-08:00

I love Utah. I mean, I really love it! It's home to me! I love Salt Lake, I love the University of Utah, I love St. George, I love Panquitch Lake, I love the Utah Jazz...I love Utah. I love the mountains, the desert, the lakes, I love the people. I am thankful to have been born in Utah..I am equally thankful to have been raised outside of Utah. I hope to visit as often as possible. I hope to see all my friends and family still in Utah. Now, this does NOT mean that I love BYU..I know I know, It's IN Utah..but I will not cheer for it..but the fact that it IS in Utah, I will not pray for it's demise...Anyway..Today, I am so thankful for my home state!!

Today it's "T" Thankful for.....

2011-11-20T10:25:00.001-08:00

Today was an easy letter.. I LOVE LOVE LOVE Thanksgiving, I LOVE LOVE LOVE turkey, and most of all I LOVE LOVE LOVE being together with my husband after 2 years of him being in Japan. I know it's a little early, but I am so excited for Thursday. I am excited to cook with him, I am excited to munch on left overs with him..I'm just excited to look across the table on Thanksgiving day and see him there! So, Happy Thanksgiving to everyone. May you be with the ones you are Thankful for!

"S" Stinky Face, how I love you!

2011-11-19T07:22:00.000-08:00

"I love you, my wonderful child," said Mama as she tucked me in. But I had a question.....

But Mama, but Mama, what if I were a super smelly skunk, and I smelled so bad that my name was STINKY FACE???

"Then I would give you a bath and sprinkle you with sweet-smelling powder. And if you still smelled bad, I wouldn't mind, and I would hug you tight and whisper in your ear, 'I love you, Stinky face'"

This is the story that I read Macen from the time I found out I was having a boy. The night that I was home with him, I read it to him, and as he grew he would giggle every time I got to the Stinky Face part of the book. We still call him "Stinky" (sometimes for a different reason) Today, I am so thankful for my "Stinky Face" and for the many many stories that I have been able to read to him. I am so thankful for the many stories that he is able to read to me! So Macen..."I LOVE YOU STINKY FACE" (and I always will)

"R" Today, it's all about Regis

2011-11-18T09:53:00.000-08:00

I know it sounds silly. I mean, for goodness sake, I don't even know the man..but for 20 years he has made me laugh! I watched him during the "Kathy Lee" years, I smiled while he searched for a co-host, I loved him during the "Kelly" years..and I have smiled every time he's on Letterman!

Today he said goodbye..and I have to admit, my day seems a little emptier. So, though I don't know you Regis, I am thankful for the smiles you have given me!

"Q" Today I am thankful for "Quickies"

2011-11-17T06:58:00.001-08:00

I have been with my husband for 13 years. He's an amazing man..and we really do have a great relationship. That being said, I have no problems blogging about the fact that I love Quickies. I do. He and I are so busy with other things, that sometimes a quickie is the only time we can be alone together. I am thankful that even after 13 years, I love to be with my husband!!!

"P" Pam: Practically Perfect Person

2011-11-16T11:32:00.000-08:00

Today I celebrate Pam! This woman is my role model..heck, she's a role model for a lot of people. She has been a Navy Wife for 30 years! I can't even imagine that..she seems so young! She must have gotten married at birth!! She shows us gals married to sailors how to stay strong. She shows us how to stand straight and proud for the work our husbands do. She shows ME how to be a good Navy Wife. She's an amazing mom, and an even more amazing friend! She just started he own blog today..and it's fantastic..if you feel like reading a little bit about her life check out :

http://pam-forschfollies.blogspot.com/2011/11/on-being-navy-wife.html

Anyway..Today I want Pam, and all of you to know how very THANKFUL I am that she is in my life. I love you Pam-a-lot!

"O" ....Oh what should I choose

2011-11-15T16:25:00.000-08:00

Today is the letter "O" and I couldn't decide what I was thankful for...Obama (Yes I STILL love our President) Oprah (She fascinates me) Opinions (you know I have many) Oxygen (you know we need it) Another "O" that I can't say on this blog..but you all know what it is..but, after all those choices, I realized that I am actually the most thankful for OPTIMISM. I think it's so important..and I think I am a really optimistic person. So, today, on this lovely "O" blog..I am very positive that I am thankful for my optimism!

Today, the letter "N"

2011-11-14T11:55:00.001-08:00

My Best friend Nan...yup...I am very thankful for this chick! She makes me happy. She's an amazing person. I miss her so much. I keep telling her she's gonna have to be my sister wife so she can live wherever I do. She is so awesome. She is the brains behind the operation. She is the jelly to my peanut butter. She is the knot in my rope. She is the beer to my glass, the macaroni to my cheese. I know that I mentioned her on the "F" post, but I love her sooo much that she gets her own post today. She really does make my heart smile! So, Nan, my friend, please remember how much I adore you! I love you and I WILL see you soon!

M is for MY MOM!!

2011-11-13T06:31:00.000-08:00

There are many people in my life that I am thankful for...but there is one that stands above the rest..and since today's letter is "M" it is fitting that I dedicate today's posting to that one person...My MOM! I love my mom. Growing up with a person like my mom was an adventure. Her costumes, her laugh, her singing, her cleaning, her decorating, her humor. She is such an amazing woman! I am so thankful to have a mom like mine! She makes me smile. She makes my heart happy all the time. She is my role-model, my friend, my teacher (and my student) This is a woman who can do anything she sets her mind to do. She gives me courage to stand up for what I believe. She allows me to be the person that I am. I know there are times she just shakes her head and wonders why I do the things I do..but she also bows her head to pray for my safety. I love my mom. She is who I hope to be most like as I go on my path of life. Thank you mom!

"I often go walking

in meadows of clover

and I gather armfuls of blossoms of blue

I gather the blossoms

the whole meadow over

Dear mother all flowers

remind me of you
O mother,

I give you my love with each flower

To give forth sweet fragrance a whole lifetime through;

For if I love blossoms and meadows and walking,

I learn how to love them, dear mother, from you."

"L" I am Thankful for LOVE

2011-11-12T06:07:00.000-08:00

I love LOVE! I do. In every form! I love the way I love husband and he loves me. I love the way we both love Macen..and he loves us. I love the way animals love their owners..even when the owners are schmucks. I love friendship love. I love family love. I love LOVE! It's the best feeling in the world..and nothing can hurt as much as a loss of someone you love. Love is the greatest gift given to us. Love is the best when it is unconditional. I love LOVE! Today, show your love to anyone and everyone you see. Love is best when given away!

"K" Part 2.."Kickin' it with History"

2011-11-11T08:26:00.000-08:00

As most of you know..I LOVE HISTORY..especially American History. I can't get enough of it. I am so blessed to live in such a historic place, and I am so grateful for that. I love Yorktown. The history of the Revolutionary war fascinates me! There are days that I like to just walk through the town and see all the landmarks. I like to sight see. I love to sit on the battlefield and imagine the battles fought. I am thankful that I have parents who inspired me to learn about our past. I am thankful that I have been given opportunities to see these amazing places. Today is Veterans day, and I can't think of a better place to live than in the town where our "Original Veterans" fought and died for our freedom from tyranny. I am honored to know so many veterans who continue the battle for not just American freedom, but for human freedom as well. So today, I would like to tell all Veterans and their families..you KICK BUTT.. (I had to get the "K" in there) and Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

"K" Part 1..Happy Birthday Kaylee

2011-11-11T08:19:00.000-08:00

Yesterday, my beautiful niece turned 17! Wow! How could she get that old and I stay so young? Let me tell you a little about this young woman..

She is amazing. She is talented, she is loving, she is beautiful. She likes to cook, and she's good at it. She has a smile that can light up the sky. She has such a great sense of humor. She's got a sailors mouth (I think she got that from me..sorry Kim) She is so much fun to talk to. She works hard. She's great with kids. This little girl that I love has become a woman that I am proud to call my friend. Happy Birthday Kaylee! I am very thankful to have you in my life...

Today, the letter "J"

2011-11-09T20:56:00.000-08:00

Most of the time I am a very sarcastic, humor seeking, push the envelope, cross the line, break the rules kind of girl. But today, I want to be a little serious. I am very thankful for Jesus Christ. I love my faith in him. I love the blessings I have received because of him. I truly believe that I am never alone..even in my darkest hours. I love that I can feel his arms around my shoulders, and his hand over my mouth! I love the knowledge that my sweet baby girl is with him, and that I will see her again. I am thankful for Jesus Christ.

I am proud to be a Christian. No matter what some may say about my faith, I KNOW what I believe. I believe in Jesus Christ. So, if you are reading this blog, and I know you are, take a little time today to give him thanks.

I don't say it enough, but I am so very thankful for all of you. May you have a blessed day today!

Below are the words to one of my most favorite hymns..I sing it, hum it, whistle it whenever I am doubting myself!

I stand all amazed at the love Jesus offers me,Confused at the grace that so fully He proffers me;I tremble to know that for me He was crucified,That for me, a sinner, He suffered, He bled and died.
O it is wonderful that He should care for me Enough to die for me! O it is wonderful, wonderful to me!
I marvel that He would descend from His throne divine, to rescue a soul so rebellious and proud as mine;That He should extend His great love unto such as I,Sufficient to own, to redeem, and to justify.

O it is wonderful that He should care for me Enough to die for me! O it is wonderful, wonderful to me
I think of His side, pierced and bleeding to pay the debt,Such mercy, such love and devotion can I forget?No, no! I will praise and adore at the mercy seat,And testify all my desires He doth fully meet.

O it is wonderful that He should care for me Enough to die for me! O it is wonderful,wonderful to me.

"I" I am Thankful for my IN-LAWS

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My Father-in-law..what a man. Hardworking and funny! Best role model I could want for my husband!

My mother-in-law...what can I say? SHE ROCKS!

Jeremy (with his wife Danyele) He's Grants "Brother from another mother" We adore this man. It doesn't matter how long it's been since Grant sees him, they act like no time has passed

Gina..Gina Gina Gina. She is so talented. She is awesome!

Rich..the man, the myth, the legend. We adore him (and his family) He is the hardest working guy I know

Alan. he likes me best out of allllll the in-laws...hee hee hee. He puts up with so much..and that is why I love him!

And..Sara. Oh Sara. You are the greatest sister-in-law a girl could want! Keep taking care of that brother of mine...

"H" I am Thankful for my "Husband"

2011-11-08T06:49:00.000-08:00

Today is one of my most favorite things to be thankful for. My amazing, gorgeous, funny, faithful, strong, hard working, loving, hot, awesome husband! Oh! How I love this man. He makes me smile every day, even when he's hundreds of miles away. He is am amazing dad..Macen is just like him..humor and all! He works so hard, and works such long hours, but he still drives home every night to be with me! I wake up every morning happy that he's mine! I love you baby!

"G" I am Thankful for my GREAT GRANDMA Fail

2011-11-07T11:42:00.000-08:00

This is a picture of my Mom, my Uncle Doug, and my Great Grandma Fail. I am sad to say I never got to meet her..but if any of you knew my Grandma Johnson, or if you are lucky enough to know my mom, you can imagine how great my Great Grandma was. I can only imagine her humor, her charm, her love. She must have been AWESOME!!! (I know, there's that word again..but I love anything AWESOME) So, today, I am thankful for my Great Grandma...and for all the great women who came before me! I hope to make you proud!
My mom, after reading this posted a memory of my Great Grandma on Facebook, so I had to share it..this is what my mom wrote:
"She lived alone in an apartment building in SLC. She babysit for income and on her days off she would walk to the temple. She would come and take care of us on each new baby. I asked her once,"grandma don't you get lonesome?" she would answer, "Kaylene I just open the door and say God I'm home" and he took care of the rest." Thank you mom..I love stories like this!

"F" is for Family

2011-11-06T17:30:00.000-08:00

Oh how I love my family! We really do put the "FUN" in dysfunctional! We are all so different, and yet so very much the same! I miss you all so very much. I tell Macen so many stories about us growing up I'm pretty sure he thinks you all made me crazy! I look forward to the time when we can all be together again!

"F" I am VERY Thankful for my FRIENDS

2011-11-06T17:05:00.000-08:00

Today was a great letter..because I have Two things I am Thankful for..the First, my family..Read the post above..

The Second?

My friends...I love my friends! I think that I have the greatest friends in the world. I only have enough space to put some pictures up, but I have so many amazing friends. Nan..She's the best friend a girl could ask for. Pam? Courtney? Wendy? Jana? You made my life so fun in Fallon...you still make it fun through Facebook. Santana and Cat..You make Virginia bearable! Beth, Susan, Kathleen...Old friends are always the greatest! Dru, Amy, Al, Misty, Bobby..(and Beth again) Camp Waziyatah holds my fondest memories! Angela...still the best Maid of Honor! Donna Darlene? One of the most incredible woman I have ever met. Nettie, Julie, Patty, Linda, Lisa Kent..You are all sooo big hearted and amazing! Tiffany..YOU ARE GREAT..(I will never do AYSO again though!! )Dan, Mark, David..Amazing men that I grew up with. (I think Dan and Dave ruined a few dates for me) The Sonju family...Grant and I admire you so much!

I know that as the day goes on I will think of a million more people, but for now, let me just say to all my Friends..."You complete me!"

"E" I am Thankful for EVERYTHING

2011-11-05T07:03:00.000-07:00

Everything. Good, bad...I am thankful for it all, because it's my life. I have had an amazing life. Some of it was hard, some of it was boring..but most of the time, it was AWESOME! So today, I will not ask for anything, I will just be happy with what I already have!

"D" I am Thankful for my "DAD"

2011-11-03T21:12:00.000-07:00

Dads and Daughters

Author: Reginald Holmes

Whole volumes have been written of fathers and their sons.

Why must daughters and their dads be such forgotten ones?

There are special ties that bind a daughter to her dad.

And a certain kind of feeling that sons have never had.

She goes to dad for counsel when things get out of hand.

She knows he has the answers,that he will understand.

From him she gets her courage;

she thrives upon his praise

and sometimes takes advantage of his kind, loving ways.

With due respect to Mother,

today I'm proud and glad

to write a little poem about a daughter and her Dad!

I love this poem because it's me and my dad. He's always been there for me. He gets mad, he gets frustrated, and then he forgives..

I know I'm his favorite (Just don't tell my sisters)

So, today, I want the world to know..

I am so Thankful for my Daddy!

"C" I am thankful for Challenges

2011-11-03T18:19:00.000-07:00

That's right, CHALLENGES. They remind me that I still have so much to learn. They tell me that I have so much life to live. If things were always easy what fun would it be? Challenges make things exciting! They make me take a big breath and dig in. I am thankful for my challenges..whatever (or whoever) they might be!

Today..it's "B" and I am thankful for my "BOYS"

2011-11-02T10:25:00.000-07:00

Yup..my boys. My reason for living. Humans and pets alike.

I am so grateful for Grant...the "alpha boy" he makes me smile daily.

Macen, my little love. I adore this boy more than anything in this world. He is Gods gift to me!

Bear, my oldest dog. He's old, and he's kind of a butt head...but life wouldn't be the same without him.

Scout..the middle child. He's loud, he gets into everything, but he makes my husband happy, so he makes me happy...

Bosco..what can I say..he's big, hairy..and so sweet! Tall dark and handsome has nothing on this dog!

So, my "Boys" thank you for all you do!

Grateful game..Alphabet Version...

2011-11-02T10:11:00.000-07:00

Today I start my yearly ritual of saying one then that I am grateful for every day until Thanksgiving. This year, however, I am doing it alphabetically. So....today, is the letter "A"

I am thankful for everything "Awesome" I say all the time that I am the awesomest...and I really am..but not for reasons that you think. I truly believe that we are all awesome! I believe that within us all we have endless possibilities to be awesome! We can show others unconditional love. We can help anyone and everyone...we can be the awesomest neighbors, the awesomest friends..and we do it by simply being ourselves! So, go ahead, toot your own horn. Announce to the world that you are "the AWESOMEST" Maybe if you say it enough, you'll start believing it..that's what I do...and I am THE AWESOMEST..there's even a group on Facebook that says so!

Happy Birthday to the Queen and a Princess

2011-10-17T19:59:00.000-07:00

October 16th is my Grandma Johnson's birthday. I miss her terribly. She was an amazing woman. A trend setter, and one of my idols~ Happy Birthday in Heaven you Grand lady!

One year ago my mom brought this cute little princess in to our lives. She gave new life to my parents! Happy Birthday Sadie Fay!

Khaki Ball

2011-10-15T07:28:00.000-07:00

Last night was our Khaki Ball. I am honored to be married to a man who has defended my freedom to tease him! We had a great time, and I met some amazing spouses, girlfriends, significant others, and above all some amazing Chiefs! Most of all, I had a great time with my Chief. I am proud to be his wife!

Fall at Panguitch Lake

2011-10-07T14:02:00.000-07:00

As most of you know, there are many things I miss about my time in Utah. One of them is our time at Panguitch Lake. There is nothing more beautiful than Fall in this amazing place. My mom and dad sent me thes pictures of the last weekend before the snow hit.

Look at the beauty. This is how I know that God is real. This is His artwork!

My beautiful mom taking a break from the 4 wheeling..(I know, rough life but someone has to do it)

Ahhh..the Quakies...some day my house will be nestled between them!

Happy Birthday my angel!

2011-09-28T19:33:00.000-07:00

Wow! 7 years! Not a day goes by that I don't think of you! 7 years ago tonight your dad and I were in the hospital waiting to hear when you would arrive. Your big brother was with Uncle John and Aunt Sara. I couldn't sleep, and your dad tried to ease my pain by bringing in romance movies for me to watch..(he, of course, fell asleep) The next afternoon you came into this world and your dad got to see the whole thing. He was wrapped around your finger right away! You share your birthday with Aunt Sara, and she got to hold you before John. You were so tiny, but so perfect. A little trooper! I think you came so early so your dad would get time with you. We had so much fun! You made our family complete! We miss you soo much, but I know we'll get to see you again! Happy Birthday my little angel!

Happy Happy Birthday bug!

We Will NEVER Forget

2011-09-11T07:41:00.000-07:00

As I sit here today watching the tribute and memorial, I am brought back to Tuesday, September 11, 2001. I remember waking up next to Grant, getting ready for our normal day. I turned on the TV and gasped. That was the day that the world changed for me. At first, I was shocked at the hatred that one must have to take all those lives...but then, slowly, I was reminded of how much love there is in the world. How many heroes we have. How many friends we have. I watched in terror as the Pentagon was hit. I was stunned at Flight 93, and I was terrified as the Twin Towers fell. Then I was amazed as I watched the New York Police, The New York Fireman, and countless others run back INTO the destruction hoping to find survivors. I watched in awe as military members and first responders run INTO the fire engulfed Pentagon. Days later as the story of Flight 93 came to light, I felt an overwhelming love for those passengers. I realized, that we, even in the worst of times, have the ability to save another life. I realized that the human spirit is greater than any evil that exists. For days the world watched the American Spirit, in all it's glory. The world watched as America pulled together. The world watched as we, once again, became "One Nation Under God, Indivisible.." The world watched as Americans remembered where we came from, what we believe in, as a nation.
I remember the sadness I felt over the loss of life. My heart ached for those who perished, wondering what what was going through their minds as death approached. And then, I knew, even without seeing it, that those people were not alone in the end. They had others with them..they had angels, arms encircling them, guiding them to Heaven. I realized that they had peace at the end.
These people would forever be etched in our minds, in our history. The world will always remember 9/11.
Today, I am honoring all those who survived. Today, I am honoring all those who didn't. Today I am honoring the heroes of September 11, 2001. "These are not lives that were taken, these are lives that were given."

First day of School 2011/2012

2011-09-06T08:17:00.000-07:00

Look at my men! Grant got to be here for his first day of school. He had to come back from work, but he made it!

He's sooooo flippin' cute!

Ignore the old lady with the cute boy!

Macen and his first Busch Gardens Rollercoaster!

2011-09-06T08:15:00.000-07:00

Williamsburg Cannon!

2011-09-06T08:14:00.000-07:00

These boys...how they make me laugh. Macen misses Geran so much!

The College of William and Mary in Williamsburg

2011-09-06T08:12:00.000-07:00

Another good thing about having Geran here is that he didn't mind me dragging him to points of history. One of my favorite places to go is Williamsburg. It's 10 minutes away, and the history is AMAZING! Here we are at the College of William and Mary. (This is the school that I wanted to go to) It's right in the middle of historic Williamsburg.

Yorktown Beach

2011-09-06T08:07:00.000-07:00

This is my favorite beach in the whole wide world..okay, maybe not the WHOLE world, but at least in Virginia. It is 5 minutes down the road from our house. The local pub is here, and the history is amazing. For those of you who have not brushed up on history, this is the place where the British surrendered thereby ending the Revolutionary war. The British had bombed this beach (which was a trade area back in the day) thinking that it would stop our allies from getting here.. The French showed up just in time, and with George Washington on the south side, they cornered the British.. (Watch "The Patriot" for a more dramatic view) anyway, Cornwallis actually held up in a cave and sent a subordinate to sign the Surrender...the cave is still here..and if you ever feel like a visit, I would love to take you here!

The brothers!

The Surrender!

Come on Irene!

2011-09-06T07:54:00.000-07:00

Hurrican Irene..Gerans first EVER!! So what do we do when a hurrican comes to our door? We PLAY!!!

Our Visit with Geran (aka Macen other brother)

2011-09-06T07:52:00.000-07:00

My best friend Nan let her cute son Geran come and play with us for a few weeks. Of course, he arrived and we had an earthquake, a lot of rain, and the Hurricane Irene came knocking...gee thanks Geran... Anyway, we got to pick Grant up on the USS Cole and he gave us a tour. It's an amazing ship and I invite all of you to come for a visit so we can show you the history!

Geran checking out the ships at Norfolk!

Yup..Geran at Waffle House!!!

Graceland!

2011-08-19T18:00:00.000-07:00

Grant asked me what I wanted to see most on this trip..it had to be Graceland. After our wonderful lunch we headed down to Elvis Presley blvd. I kept thinking "This can't be right..the area was just soooo run down." We drove down to a huge parking area and Grant said, go find out about the tickets. I'll find a place to park. Tickets to just see the outside of the house were $45.00..so I thought I'll just get a picture of it and we can head on our way. Could not find the house! Seriously. Huge gates everywhere....As I was about to break down, my cute husband called my cell phone and said, "I am coming to get you..Graceland is right across the street!" I hop in the car..we drive across the street and park in a little turn off by the front gate. I hop out expecting to see..well...a huge mansion.....nope..Huge lawn, tiny home..but I can still say I was there!

yes..that's it!

The lawn was bigger than the house!

Memphis..Mississippi River

2011-08-19T17:49:00.000-07:00

Across the river is Mud island..I believe it was in the movie "The Firm' I don't really know..but that's what Grant kept saying!

Me and the boy..and the boys!

Oh Memphis! I love the history..Macen only knows "The Blind Side"...

The King himself

and the "other" King!

BEALE Street..Memphis

2011-08-19T17:46:00.000-07:00

I love this street...this town, this history....

B.B. KING!

B.B. Kings Blues Club!

Blues City Cafe

2011-08-19T17:26:00.000-07:00

This sign says it all!!! This has become a tradition for the Caufield Clan. Best BBQ in Memphis!

This is the man that greets you at the door! You can't say no to him!

Our Hostess! She was so cute..

Grant and his Ribs!! SOOOOOOO YUMMY

Macen loves him some good ol' fashioned Southern BBQ!

Tennessee..I love you!

2011-08-19T17:23:00.000-07:00

Crossing the Mississippi River into Tennessee..my most favorite place on the whole trip.

The City is beautiful!

Here we go ladies and gentlemen..down one of the most amazing streets in the USA

BB King, Elvis....this place just screams music history!

Texas and Oklahoma are very long states

2011-08-19T17:17:00.000-07:00

What a trooper Grant is! He drove through the most boring spots, letting us nap..keeping us entertained...I couldn't do it without him!

Scout and Macen in the back...Bear is back there too, but he had his own spot....

Bosco kicked Macen out of the back seat...he wanted to look out the window!

Seriously...everything is oversized in Texas!

T! T is for Turtle

2011-08-19T17:14:00.000-07:00

The Big Texan

2011-08-19T17:13:00.000-07:00

Now THAT is a boot!

I truly believe that Texas is it's own country. They don't look to kindly on outsiders....and there was not one side that said "God Bless the USA" just "God Bless Texas" and if you sneeze, they say "God Texas you"

Everything's Bigger in Texas

2011-08-19T17:09:00.000-07:00

Grant HAD to stop at this place. He wanted to try and eat the 72 oz steak..but we really didn't have the time.

Macen just kept saying.."Texas is toooooo HOT"

The Big Cow

and my guys

Movin' right along

2011-08-19T16:59:00.000-07:00

Our trip to Virginia was AMAZING! Here we are going over the Colorado River. We loved Arizona. The cliff dwellers, the jewelry, the heat..so pretty!

My Boys

What a view!

As the sun was setting a storm was rolling in.....

Well, It's about that time..

2011-07-17T13:06:00.000-07:00

It's time to move ..this time back to Virginia. I have had a fantastic year here in St. George. I will miss it every day. The amazing people I have met, gotten re-aquainted with...it's been, well, unforgettable! I will remember you all! It's time to get back to being the Three Muskateers. Macen is thrilled to have his dad back. I can't seem to stop
smiling! I don't want to say Goodbye..so I'll just say...See you later!

See you down the road! (I hope)

2011-07-17T13:01:00.000-07:00

It's time to move on...

2011-07-17T12:54:00.000-07:00

It's been fun!

2011-07-17T12:43:00.000-07:00

September 29, 2004- January 22, 2005

2011-01-22T14:38:00.000-08:00

Oh Sweet Baby girl. We miss you every day! It seems like only yesterday I was holding you. We love you!

The Wadley Women (well, the originals)

2011-01-17T22:05:00.000-08:00

I have many blessings in my life. I wake up every morning very humbled. Three of these blessing were here with me this weekend. My mom, who I am lucky enough to live so close to. I thank God for her every day! My sister Tracie. I can not even find the words to tell you all how much I adore her. She is the kindest, most loving soul I have ever met. My sister Kim. The closest to me in age. The funniest girl, the strongest woman...I am in constant awe of her. These three women..these friends, these mothers..I am so very grateful to have been born into this family. To Have these women as role-models! I enjoy every moment I have with them...Thank you for such a wonderful weekend!

Random Pictures

2011-01-17T21:57:00.000-08:00

The Wadley Women Feet! (I have a thing for feet)

Mom and Kim...I love love love this picture!

We brought Sadie...she's in our family pictures...the Little Princess!

After the shoot!

2011-01-17T21:55:00.000-08:00

Macen and I on the topp of one of the Rocks...What a view!

Mom and Tracie!

Tracie and Kim

Macen, Kim and Tracie.....we had such a blast!

Hangin' out at "the Rocks!"

2011-01-17T21:52:00.000-08:00

Macen my love...He nad his cousin climbed all over the rocks!

Maddie..she's becoming quite the wonderful little lady!

Macen..goof ball!

And yes, my dad was there..we didn't leave him home...even though by the end of the day he was wishing we had!

The Red Rocks

2011-01-17T21:49:00.000-08:00

These are the views from the Red Rocks! Pretty huh? The beautiful St. George Temple..center of town.

The Mountain that Grant and I got married on!

The place where Grant and I "hung out" while getting to know each other!

Another view of this amazing town I live in!

Picture time

2011-01-17T21:45:00.000-08:00

Because my Sister Kim lives so far away, and we were all finally together, we went to the Red Rocks of St. George and had our pictures taken. (These are my pictures, we had a real photographer do the good ones) Hers's my sister Kim!

My mom and Tracie

My mom and me!

Wadley day!

2011-01-17T21:43:00.000-08:00

This past Saturday, all 4 Wadley women were in St. George. My sister Kim (and Maddie) My sister Tracie, my mom and I (along with Macen) decided to make the most of having us all together. We started the day by having Mani-Pedi's.

Macen even got to get in on the fun by having his first pedicure! He loved it!